Or maybe your neighbor is an a-hole, who needs a reality check. It is not only a problem in schools, bullying at the work place is a common thing. Don't apologize, don't care is the right attitude to go for, eventually the others will grow up too. It is not something you have control over now, is it? You can be a nice guy through and through, and still get slack because of your family. Sometimes you won't have money for whatever is the popular thing, or maybe you are rich but living in a generally poor suburb and your peers will look at you with jealousy, and distrust. They are different sides of the same coin and the coin is called "being different". Prepared for Diablo 3 PAX East gaming conference in Boston In truth the quiet introvert guys, who prefer solitary entertainments, are much less prone to causing trouble, so there is absolutely no need to apologize for making the decision to skip a party and go watch Star Wars for 12th time instead. However there is this notion that if you are not meeting up people and partying non-stop you are somehow a no-lifer, who prefers playing computer games/reading books/building robots. Now lets make one thing clear, staying in front of your computer for 12 hours each day and not leaving your house at all can't be considered good.
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If you are a guy who likes something the internet tells them to hate, don't worry about it and don't feel you are doing something wrong.Īnother thing, which became popular the moment internet became popular, is how people are being judged based on their interests, and how they spend their free time. One is perfectly harmless, the other can be offensive.
Liking Justin Bieber or Twilight for example will not make you a popular guy in some circles, and if you get found out your only way is to apologize for your bad taste.what? No really, there is a big difference between enjoying something and judging the people, who enjoy something else. We live in interesting times, where internet decides what is cool and what is cool to hate. No reason to do that, no really, unless they are running to get out of there, ask them as many questions as you can and pay them back by doing your work better with the newly acquired knowledge. So you don't ask questions and regret it later, or ask them but make sure to apologize first, like you did something wrong, or you are too stupid to figure out everything by yourself. The teachers and your higher ranking colleagues at a new work place have this air around them that makes them look scary. There is no need to feel inferior and if your group mocks you for shedding a tear at something they don't particularly care about - ask them why they think expressing your true feelings is so taboo. Apparently crying is healthy, so doing it from time to time without a good reason is perfectly fine.
Never mind that crying can actually make you feel better afterwards. So please, keep all these feelings to yourself, fit your stereotype. Women crying is unavoidable and annoying. Have some self respect and stop trying to be the person others can use on a whim. Saying No and inserting your opinion into the conversation is not something you should be afraid of. Welcome to the world of betas, where assertiveness is a foreign concept. You want to please the people around you in any way you can, saying a firm No will no doubt upset them so you have problems doing it, or have to apologize profusely when uttering the word. Besides, having doubts and being slow can not only hurt you but also the people around you, so just go for it, think later. There are some moments, when our body acts on its own, or we shout on top of our lungs, it is all part of our survival instinct and you totally shouldn't apologize for being caught in the moment. We might have succeeded in dulling them out but they will never disappear completely.
We are intelligent animals, trying our best to pile up tons of rules and morals over our basic instincts.